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TABLE OF CONTENTS
1. Preamble
2. Crucial Statistics
3. Integral Philosophy and Politics
4. On Relationships
5. Love Languages
6. Sex
7. Goals
8. Hobbies
9. Favorites
10. Friend Reviews
Last Updated: November 7, 2025
Preamble
Don’t worry, this page isn’t accessible directly from this website unless someone is looking for it – you must have found this link on a dating site. I don’t just freely have a dating profile on my author site. That would be weird and ridiculous. 😅
This page will contain most of everything that I consider integral to knowing me. But a bonus to having this page hosted on this website is that you’ll be able to easily check out things I’ve written and see some of my thoughts, and my FAQ and all that. There will likely be some double-coverage of some stuff, but that’s because I’m trying to specifically make this page a one-stop-shop for what you need to know about me. What is truly perfect about this is that this is a very ME thing to do, and you really get a look at how my brain works.
If you want to message me, contact me on the dating site that you came from. I won’t respond to emails or contact-form messages regarding dating.
Crucial Statistics
Age: 37 (August 3, 1988)
Gender: Non-Binary
Pronouns: They/Them
City: Vancouver, BC, Canada
Diet: Omnivore
Relationship Type: Non-Monogamous/Polyamorous
Relationships: Currently have 1 partner, my nesting partner Al (They/Them), together since April 18, 2020. (They have a few other partners).
Pets: I have a cat named Iroh, and my nesting partner Al has a cat named Zuko.
Regularly tested, and vasectomy completed.
Orientation: Bi/Pansexual and Demi-Romantic.
I feel this deserves some explanation: I find people of all genders sexually attractive, but I’ve never had that be the reason I’d say “I want to have sex with this person.” Personality and connection is integral to me wanting a relationship, and even sex with a person. This isn’t demi-sexuality because I still find people sexually attractive, I just don’t have the desire to have sex with people because I find them sexually attractive. However a connection with a person can happen in a lot of ways. Just seeing someone’s online presence and connecting with it can sometimes be enough – in fact I kind of feel like a person’s online presence is marginally important for me feeling connected to them.
Some Facts About Me:
-I am ridiculously organized. I only realized that this is because I have ADHD not long ago. I live off of lists, because through my life organization is how I learned to cope with undiagnosed ADHD.
-In the last couple years I’ve become… kinda… chronically offline. I don’t usually use social media anymore because we live in a hellscape.
-I don’t drive, my ADHD has posed a problem, and I don’t trust myself to drive, sadly. I proudly take public transit if I need to.
-If I don’t make “doing things that I enjoy” a goal, I won’t actually do them. Play games? Had to make it a goal. 😒
-I am so obsessed with movies that I even get into box office statistics. I watch a YouTube series on the box office every Monday, and I once made a spreadsheet tracking the budgets, box office gross, and supposed profits of Blumhouse pictures. Yes, yes, I’m a nerd.
-Music is very important to me, like crucial, and there’s a whole traumatic history there. You should know, I’m the kind of person who listens to albums, not songs. It’s extremely rare that I will just pick a song, and listen to it. If a song is released and it’s the only good thing on the album, I’ll usually just forget about the album. I listen to albums front to back. That’s just how it be. I say this because, if you share a song with me, I probably wont listen to it much, especially if the album as a whole doesn’t connect with me. Please don’t take it personally. ❤ I still really appreciate when someone shares a piece of themselves with me like that. But if theres an album you love that’s especially good to send to me. Emo and emo adjascent music is pretty much exclusively what I choose to listen to.
-I’ve been polyamorous since 2013.
-For about 15 years I regularly used the word “poignant” to mean “very meaningful given the circumstances.” That’s not what it means, and I can never use it again because that’s what it means to me. 😅
-My books TBR pile is conservatively around 450 😩 But I have a massive book collection as well. It’s “bad.”
-Games TBP, conservatively around 300. But in reality, it’s decades long.
My book collection without all the other STUFF in the way. lol.
Date me and have access to my library? 👀
Integral Philosophy and Politics
BLM. ACAB. Landback. Free palestine.
No TERFs, SWERFS, “Sapiosexuals,” gun owners, or cops.
No Harry Potter or JKR, unless it’s denouncing her.
No anti-science or pseudo science.
Your feminism is not feminism if it is not intersectional, and if it doesn’t include sex workers.
I am sex positive, sex worker positive, kink positive, body positive, and honestly positive about most things that don’t harm others.
I am politically progressive. Which means I celebrate progress, and strive for more progress. (In truth I’m much further left than that).
The way to end homelessness is to give people homes. Period.
When tearing down a terrible person, attacking the things they can’t help makes you a terrible person too. Sure, Trump is fat, but it’s not what is bad about him. Being fat isn’t a negative character trait, and you don’t get to bodyshame or misgender people even if they’re terrible people, because people who also share those perfectly normal traits are listening and they hear what you think of them.
I am anti-violence, but that doesn’t mean I’m pro-passivity. If you start physical violence, you obviously do so expecting the other person to *finish* the physical violence. In other words. “If you get violent, be prepared to die.” – Additionally this means, don’t get violent unless the other person already has. (I’m not prepared to die, so I don’t get violent, lmao.)
Kindness is the most important thing in the world, but let’s not misunderstand that. Consider the idea of a N*zi roaming around un-punched. The very livelyhood of a N*zi is violence and hate. That is not very kind. While punching someone generally seems unkind, it is actually the kind thing to do when, y’know, at least 50 million people died to put an end to N*ziism. Standing up for what’s right is an integral part of kindness. Kindness is not passive. And you can fucking quote me on that. (And punching a N*zi is not “starting physical violence” as suggested in the previous paragraph, it’s finishing it.)
Sapiosexuality is a classist, racist, and ableist joke. So, don’t come at me with that. You’re not sapiosexual, you’re another orientation and you appreciate a certain kind of intelligence in people. Liking a character trait is not a sexual orientation. I am not a catownersexual. Also, you should assess your idea of what intelligence is, and come to terms with how it is probably classist, racist, and ableist.
Here’s a hot take: Billionaires shouldn’t exist – but having a net worth of a couple million dollars is not rich anymore, it’s upper-middle-class. That’s like… owning a nice house and a car and saving for retirement, and paying for 3 kids’ university tuition – in fact thats probably more than that right there. The tax brackets should start at $1 million and 20%, and rise up to 50% by $1 billion (that is, if we MUST maintain this capitalist hellscape). Millionaires are not your enemy, they’re the marginally reachable goal of a comfortable and happy life. BIllionaires are the enemy. And most of all corporations are the enemy.
Guns are far more likely to hurt you or the people you care about than they are to protect you and your loved ones. So, no guns in my life. I don’t care who you are. But if you’re a marginalized person, I wouldn’t blame you for owning one. I just don’t want it in my life.
Capitalism is a hellscape that is designed to suck as much productivity out of people as it can until they die, so that productivity can make ~100 people in the world rich. There are innumerable better ways for society to function. While I think capitalism needs to be left behind, I have no doubt that humanity will mess up every single societal structure we take on. As such there is no ONE way of doing things that will work. Truthfully, none will work forever, and this is why constant revolution is necessary. I don’t subscribe to any one political socioeconomic system, I just know that what we have now isn’t it. I don’t know enough about all the different ideas to comfortably say that “this specific one is the one I’d prefer,” but it’d likely be anarchistic.
Why piracy is important: Capitalism threatens to remove more and more valuable resources for people every year. Eventually public libraries will go as well. Books, games, music, videos. Access to art and knowledge. Until a revolution ends capitalism, piracy is a moral necessity.
Piracy protects art and knowledge from corporations.
On Relationships
I’m looking for relationships of all kinds. Truthfully I’m looking for connection.
But as you can tell from what I’ve written above I am looking for kind and caring people.
People who are dying to communicate effectively.
Long term romantic and sexual relationships. Even if they don’t work out as romantic or sexual, I’d still like them to be long term (friends).
Really, just good people who will stick around and not take advantage of me.
I was in long distance relationships, pretty much exclusively, for 7 years (before and after coming out at polyamorous). I am not opposed to long distance relationships now, but the fact is that I will not be able to visit you for probably years if you live further than a couple hours. I do really love that specific kind of connection that exists between online partners, and if I’m being honest I kind of miss it. It feels entirely different from in-person connections to me.
I believe that relationships should be fluid, and a relationship that started sexual can become a platonic one, and that should be okay. I will never be angry with someone for breaking up with me, I will only be upset if I’m treated badly. I always want to stay friends with those I love.
My view on relationships is that nobody is mine to “own”, I want to always be open and honest, and I want you to have the freedom to find the things you need in me, and anyone else. I don’t see this as “sharing you with others.” I will always be thankful that you shared any part of yourself with me. The only response I can give to that is deep gratitude.
(Note: I don’t think there’s anything wrong with someone wanting an “owner” or anything like that, given that it isn’t really “ownership,” that is a person respecting the consensual desires of another).
While talking with my therapist a while back, I realized that having relationships that are “partnerships,” but are not sexual, is quite harmful for my mental health. So, we can be friends of course, but if we’re going to be “partners” of any kind, I need the relationship to contain some intimacy, affection, and sexuality.
This has been happening for 20 years: Partners tell me they love me, but refuse to have any sort of intimacy, as little as kissing. Some clearly used me.
I don’t believe in hierarchical polyamory, but rather that certain things clearly take priority by necessity, like rent, or our cats. Those are commitments unlike any I would likely have with other partners. But the people themselves should have an equitable relationship with me.
Some day I would love to be in a triad or quad, but if I’m being honest, I struggle to connect to people already, connecting to more than one person who are already connected seems unlikely, given that I’m demi-romantic. But hey, there’s a first time for everything.
Please don’t approach me as an existing couple. I have no aversion to triads, or quads or any relationship setup, but I do have an aversion to trying to start a relationship in a way that is not 1 on 1. Relationships like triads are really 4 relationships that need to be nurtured separately (A+B, B+C, A+C, A+B+C), and they will only work if you CAN nurture them individually. So, I only ever want to start 1 on 1. If I like your existing partner, and vice versa, we can go from there.
It is my ethical standard that I will place no rules on my partners. I have personal boundaries, such as “please don’t touch my ears without asking” (lol, it’s a thing, I dunno), and I will not have sex with someone who has not had a recent STI test or has had unprotected sex with someone else who cannot provide a recent STI test.
My partners are free to live and love as they please, and I wholly desire to see them nurture their other relationships. I would never expect a partner to spend energy/spoons that they don’t have, on me. And I will never take your personal decisions personally, unless they are unequivocally personal to me. Most of all, in no way do I expect all relationships to be entirely equal. Things should be equitable in that we do our best to meet the specific needs of each individual partner, but maybe sometime you want to go spend a month with another partner. That says nothing of our relationship, and if thats what you want to do with that person, you should do it!
Not to get educational here, but there ARE a lot of people who are new to polyamory, and this is really important. Crucial, really.
-A boundary is something you place on only yourself: “I will not _____.”
-A rule is something you place on someone else: “You cannot _____.”
Rules are harmful in relationships, but especially in polyamorous relationships, because when you place a rule on your partner, that rule doesn’t just affect you and the partner you placed it on – it affects that partner’s other relationships as well. The only rules that are acceptable and ethical are ones that are so obvious they don’t need to be stated. Like, “do not sexually assault people.” This doesn’t need to be stated; one would expect that if your partner sexually assaulted someone, you’d break up with them. “Don’t lie to me.” Obvious.
As such I place no rules on my partners.
I’ve seen people have rules that their partners cannot spend the night with someone else – that very clearly affects your partners partners.
Some people have a “one penis policy” – even if that one penis is mine, I want no part of that, but you’re more than welcome to make your only penis mine, lmao, as long as that is your choice.
Rules are borne of insecurity, and it is your job to manage that insecurity responsibly. You can ask your partners for help, but you cannot tell your partners how their other relationships, which have nothing to do with you, should function.
My beliefs about LOVE:
I should preface this with the fact that I firmly believe that everyone experiences love in different ways. What I’m about to say in no way reflects what I think love to be for everyone, but only for me.
For me, there is only one type of love. Love – saying “I love you” – this means, “I want you in my life.” Period. Different relationships are built on decisions made between people who want each other in their lives. There are a whole pile of emotions and experiences that help us define our relationships and make decisions on where to go with them. When I say, “I love you” it means, “I want you in my life, and I’m glad that you’re in my life.” To display romantic love, erotic love, any other kind of love, these are shown through actions.
While we’re here I may as well talk about my attraction and what I enjoy in relationships.
I’m definitely attracted to punk and the various alt aesthetics. I’m highly but not exclusively T4T, but am often attracted to cis women. I’m not often attracted to cis men, but when I am they’re usually highly feminine. I’m most attracted to androgyny. I find creativity and thoughtfulness very attractive and value those a lot.
In relationships I really enjoy just existing together. Doing things together, or separately while still together. I love movies, so watching movies together is a pretty big thing. If you can participate with me in any of my hobbies, and/or include me in yours, that is ideal. I also enjoy just watching people play games, or playing games and existing together. God, I love just talking and cuddling.
Love Languages
When people talk about love languages they rarely discuss how we have 2 sets. One set of languages we speak naturally, and one set of languages we need to hear from our partners.
I speak most love languages quite naturally and it is difficult for me when someone wants me to not speak one of them. In order of most important for me:
1. It’s important for me to be able to give words of affirmation, I’ve genuinely had partners that just didn’t want to hear my love. That was really difficult. I’m a writer, and expressing myself is really important.
2. Physical touch is also important for me to give. Sometimes words just won’t do for a situation. I also have trauma around being deprived of touch, so that’s a thing.
3. Acts of service is another thing that comes naturally and I think it also has to do with my desire to care for those I love. With my nesting partner it works well, as they have trauma around working in kitchens. Before we met they hadn’t used a stove in over a year, and now that we live together, I’ve been cooking for them.
4. It’s hard to argue with quality time. It’s the one that just seems to be the basis of friendships and relationships to me. I don’t really have much to say about it.
5. I am a natural gift giver, I’m told that I’m good at it lol. I think this also comes down to the fact that what I really want in life is to be able to take care of the people I care about. Of course, if someone doesn’t want me to give gifts, that would be totally fine for me, unlike some other languages.
Love languages I need to hear:
1. Physical touch is v important to me, as noted in the section above.
2. Words of affirmation is a little weird for me. It’s the easiest way to make me feel loved. I have an ex who has made me feel more loved with words than I’ve ever felt. But he couldnt follow through with action. As a result I feel a little weird an anxious about words of affirmation, but they’re definitely still important. Something I need to work on.
3. Again quality time just seems integral.
4. I don’t need acts of service done for me. But it’s always welcome, as long as we’re not keeping count.
5. I don’t need gifts at all. If anything, just knowing someone thought of me is the best. But it doesn’t have to be gifts. (I have too much stuff as it is). But if someone’s gonna buy me food, I’m not turning it down.
Sex
As explained in the On Relationships section, it is important for my relationships with partners to have at least some intimacy, affection, and sexuality. How that looks for me and my individual partners is up to us individually. Penetrative sex is not the most important thing. Kink is also not particularly important to me. What IS important to me is putting an effort in to meet the needs of my partners and communicating what is feasible.
When I say that my relationships with partners must be at least a little sexual, that could be something as simple as enjoying touching each other while watching tv as our main sexual activity. Or simply me going down on my partner sometimes. But I would prefer a sexual relationship where, at its baseline, it is just your average sexual relationship, and go from there.
I must note that kink is not inherently sexual and doesn’t automatically count in this situation. Kink is absolutely something I would participate in with most friends that I love.
Importantly, I don’t want to have to worry about overstepping boundaries when it comes to physical touch. It seems like this should be such a normal thing with partners, but my trauma gives me such wild anxiety around this.
*Can I touch their butt? I’m still unsure for some reason.😣*
The following picture is my BDSM test results, which I think is fairly accurate for me. However, it does say that I’m 23% vanilla, and to be completely honest I really love vanilla sex. I think that the test is kind of weighted against vanilla. I just love a lot of stuff.
Some other notes on it:
It says I’m 100% switch, which yes, I’m switch, but I lean heavily dom (I would consider myself 90% dom, 10% sub). I have to laugh at 100% brat, I dunno how that happened. 😂 Pretty sure the sub part of me is service. I think the reason that Submissive is a little higher than dominant is because I’m very soft by nature. You’ll see a lot of 100%s on there… LIKE I SAID. I fucking love sex of all kinds XD and am apparently kinky af, but I don’t require it. Ideally I will adapt to the needs of my partners. If you’re curious about anything you are absolutely allowed to ask, I’m an open book. But maybe don’t make it the only thing you ask, you’ll probably get ignored.
Goals
My greatest goal in life is to be able to take care of all the people I love.
Career-wise I’m working hard to be a full time novelist and I hope to find success in that.
I just finished my BA and I’m hoping to go to UBC for the MFA in Creative Writing, full time. But it’s not easy to get into. Either way I’ll be looking toward a master’s degree.
After my MFA, if I can’t pull off the full-time novelist thing, the next thing on my list is to teach writing in university.
I recently realized that I burnt out in 2009, and was never able to recover, because my idea of recovering is doing things that I enjoy, but I happen to enjoy things that continue to burn me out – things like writing, programming, and game development. So, I’ve decided to deprioritize those kinds of thigns in my life, and spend more time trying to recover from a decade and a half of burnout. I’ve been struggling to accomplish things, so I figure, if it takes me 2 years to recover, I wouldn’t have accomplished anything else in that time anyway, so it’s better to try to recover.
Hobbies
Writing isn’t really a hobby, or a career for me. It’s a way of life. There was a time where I actually gave up on my dream of writing because I was depressed. But, you know what happened? I ended up making ridiculously long Facebook posts, and messages to people on dating sites. So, I never REALLY stopped writing. It’s a part of who I am.
I started going to university for tech stuff. Because in 2016 I started teaching myself how to make games, and I LOVED it. I acheived a diploma in Computer Information Systems, and through that I realized I don’t actually enjoy it academically. I just enjoy making games as a hobby. While I hope that a game I make may some day find an audience, it remains a hobby, and I’m honestly still learning as I go.
Making music is a hobby of mine. You can check out the Music page on this site if you want. Music was perhaps the biggest part of my life from age 14 to 21, but a traumatic event happened, and for an entire year I avoided even listening to music, for 9 years I could barely touch my guitar. In 2018 I finally started making music again. I lost a lot of time and progress. After a couple albums, I stopped making music again. It has been aroudn 6 years this time, but this time for a lot of reasons. I currently have all my music gear sitting out, to hopefully inspire me.
Sometimes I make YouTube videos and I stream because I enjoy it. I don’t prioritize it very often.
I, of course, love gaming. The Legend of Zelda is an integral part of what made me a creative person.
I love tabletop gaming as well. I love deck building games. I really enjoyed DMing D&D, but I could never have the time to DM anymore. But I’d love to have a group to be a player.
Reading is the only true education to be a writer. Sadly my undiagnosed ADHD made this a difficult area of slow growth for me. But after I got diagnosed, meds and coping mechanisms helped me get through books, and now I read 50+ per year. (Usually streaky though. I’ll read 20, then not read for 2 months).
I don’t drink much at all. If I had to put a number on it, I might have the equivalent of 6 beers in a year. However, I want to get into homebrewing beer (and maybe cider, mead, and other such things). Because the process tickles my brain, and I do like beer.
But that’s definitely a maybe-future-me thing.
I enjoy baking and cooking, though I wish I had a nice kitchen to do it in.
I worked at a bread bakery, and though it was a very traumatic 6 years, I do love baking bread still.
Filmmaking has always been of interest to me. Even if I were to make a $0 budget narrative YouTube series, that would be pretty cool. I think I’d really enjoy directing, and I might be okay at it. But it’s not really something that’s on my mind right now.
One of the biggest things in my life is film. I watch a movie nearly every other day (on average). I particularly love horror, but I love most types of movies. I like TV too, but it’s hard for me, because my ADHD wants me to finish things in one go. I also find that when I watch TV shows I forget them immediately. Not sure what’s up with that. But I watch so many movies I’ve started keeping track of them with a spreadsheet. lmao. (Okay, years later, I’m using Letterboxd now).
This is perfect, right between that last paragraph and my next section, I can give you a link to my movie/tv tracking spreadsheet. You can’t edit it, but if you make a copy, you can organize it however you like, to see what I rated your favorites. lol
(To do so, click on a column you want to sort by, on the toolbar go to:
Data < Sort Sheet < Sort sheet by column… )
Favorites
My Favorite Sports Teams:
Vancouver Canucks
They’re literally the only sport related thing I care about. It takes me back to childhood.
Hockey just doesn’t seem real though.
It’s like fantasy levels of ridiculous, and I think that might be why I like it. “I’m gonna run… on ICE… using KNIVES, while holding a WEAPON used to smack a fuckin ROCK at another guy at 100mph.”
Some of My Favorite Movies of All Time, In No Particular Order:
Arrival
The Substance
Portal to Hell (2025)
It (2017)
The Life of Chuck
Weapons
Barbarian
The Batman
The Dark Knight
The Monkey
Nimona
South Park: Bigger Longer & Uncut
The 4:30 Movie
Lake Mungo
Godzilla Minus One
The Iron Giant
Coco
Hereditary
Some of My Favorite TV Shows In No Order:
Avatar the Last Airbender
Legend of Korra
Ted Lasso
The Haunting Of Hill House
Midnight Mass
The Last of Us
Dexter (S1-4 + New Blood)
Under the Banner of Heaven
Fringe
King of the Hill
The Simpsons (S1-15)
Futurama
Bob’s Burgers
South Park (but BOY do I have a lot of thoughts on it.)
Breaking Bad
Batman the Animated Series
Spider-Man the Animated Series
X-Men the Animated Series
Batman Beyond
Harley Quinn
Broadchurch
Veronica Mars
Dickinson
Murderbot
Favorite Anime:
(I only started watching Anime in Fall of 2022, so compared to some, I haven’t watched much):
Elfen Lied
Parasyte: The Maxim
Given
Akiba Maid War
Chainsaw Man
Death Note
Land of the Lustrous
Zom 100
Wonder Egg Priority
Bofuri: I Don’t Want to get Hurt so I Maxed Out My Defense (Season 1)
Made in Abyss (Season 1)
Call of the Night
Dandadan
Tokyo Magnitude 8.0
School Live!
Some of My Favorite YouTube Channels In No Order (Other Than Theme):
—Writing
Daniel Greene (Sci-fi/Fantasy Booktube)
Brandon Sanderson
Jenna Moreci
Alyssa Matesic
Biblaridion (Conlang and world building)
jan Misali (Conlang and other stuff)
—Gaming
Game Grumps
Good Vibes Gaming (Game news and reviews)
Happy Console Gamer
Ryukahr (mostly Super Mario Maker)
ChippyGaming (Terraria News)
—Film/TV
Scaredy Cats
Chris Stuckmann
Dan Murrell
Ryan Hollinger
Corridor Crew
Pushing Up Roses
—True Crime
JCS – Criminial Psychology
That Chapter
Matt Orchard – Crime and Society
—Tech
Linus Tech Tips
Sara Spalding (GameMaker Studio 2 development, but no longer active)
Thio Joe
—Music
8-Bit Music Theory
Alex Melton
—Other
Mythical Kitchen (cooking and chaos)
Miniminuteman (Archaeology)
Sexplanations (sex education)
SciShow (science news and education)
Glen and Friends Cooking (very broad cooking, baking and creative foods channel)
Some of My Favorite Bands In No Order:
Arm’s Length
Pool Kids
Sweet Pill
Frank Turner
The Early November (all Ace Enders projects)
awakebutstillinbed
Peregrine
Ceres
Jimmy Eat World
The Hotelier
Something Corporate
Dashboard Confessional
Further Seems Forever
Modern Baseball
Origami Angel
Some of My Favorite Games In No Order:
Terraria (PC) (It’s kinda the main one tbh)
Zelda: Ocarina of Time (N64)
Zelda: Majora’s Mask (N64)
Zelda: Minish Cap (GBA)
Zelda: A Link to the Past (SNES)
Zelda: A Link to the Past Randomizer (PC – emulation)
Zelda: Ocarina of Time Randomizer (PC – emulation)
Super Mario 64 (N64)
Super Mario World (SNES)
Portal and Portal 2 (PC)
Sim City (SNES)
Sim City 3000 Deluxe (PC)
Dead By Daylight (PC) – The only online game I love.
God of War Trilogy (PS2)
Goldeneye 007 (N64)
Mega Man 2 (NES)
Mega Man 11 (PC)
Final Fantasy (NES)
Final Fantasy V (SNES fan translation)
Chrono Trigger (SNES)
HuniePop (PC) – shhh it’s my chill game
NHL 2003 (GCN) – I still play this one lmao
Game Dev Story (Mobile)
Super Mario RPG: Legend of the Seven Stars (SNES + Remake on Switch)
Life Is Strange (PC)
Pokemon Gen 1-3 (GBA) – Gen 4 was ok, I havent played any others yet.
I don’t reread books, so having “favorites” is hard, but these are ones I love and left an impression on me.
Murderbot Series – Martha Wells
Pet Sematary – Stephen King
IT – Stephen King
The Nest – Kenneth Oppel
John Cleaver series – Dan Wells
The Last House on Needless Street – Catriona Ward
Jonny Appleseed – Joshua Whitehead
The Road Beneath My Feet – Frank Turner
A Series of Unfortunate Events – Lemony Snicket (Daniel Handler)
Esperanza Rising – Pam Muñoz Ryan
Brown Girl Dreaming – Jaqueline Woodson
Looking for Alaska – John Green
Foe – Iain Reid
I’m Thinking of Ending Things – Iain Reid
We Used to Live Here – Marcus Kliewer
Piranesi – Suzanna Clarke
Sharp Objects – Gillian Flynn
Polysecure – Jessica Fern
Root Magic – Eden Royce
It’s Easier To List the Foods I Don’t Like
Pickles, olives, black licorice, excessively spicy foods where the heat blocks the flavor.
I don’t eat shellfish (it seems to make me feel sick, though regular fish is good). I’m not big on sushi, because of a bad experience in Japan when I was 16. It’s probably time to try it again. But regardless, I will go for sushi with you, even if I gotta get something else.
I’m pretty open to anything as long as it wont burn my face off, and doesn’t contain shellfish. I always want to try new stuff as long as it doesn’t make me sick to think about.
My go-to foods are chicken anything, and Pizza.
I feel really odd about the fact that food doesn’t really bring me joy. Like… I percieve food as “Food I hate vs food that is fine.” I dont really love any foods. 🤷♀️ But most of all I generally choose food based on how much I have to spend on it as that’s what matters more to me, having grown up poor.
I do love a Coke slurpee though.